Do you have any suggestions on how to correct a slob?
My fiancé is the biggest slob on the planet! I have tried everything to make him start picking up after himself, to no avail! I have screamed, pleaded and even threatened him with physical violence but nothing is working.
Three weeks ago I started letting things be, to see if he would finally realize what kind of mess he leaves… We now have cockroaches scurrying around in the living room!
Do you have any suggestions on how to correct a slob?
Sorry, I don’t have anything that will help you with your fiancé. However, I do have some advice for you if you wish to marry the guy (and to stay married to him) — bend down and pick up garbage when you see it!
Nagging has never worked with a guy: help him instead! Does it really have to be such a big deal to pick up after him? If you keep doing it a little bit at a time it will not feel like a chore, and you won’t end up with the type of disaster as you have now.
You have cockroaches because you were being a lazy bitch! Well done!
All happily married women realize eventually that women are better at cleaning than men. In fact, it’s one of the corner stones of a successful marriage! If you wish to avoid messes altogether — marry a salad-eating lesbian.
- Dog
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