Why do men purchase porn magazines?
I need some help in understanding the male gender. Since I was a small child I have always been under the impression the only guys that couldn’t get a date look at porn, and that it was almost abnormal for a man that was dating (or who was married) to continue reading them.
I’m in a relationship with an older man that says I take care of his needs (in and out of bed). I have even questioned him if he would like to see any changes, and what we could do to improve our sex life. He says that all is well and that no changes need to be made. Yet I have found porn magazines under the mattress and on the top shelf in a corner of his closet.
My problem is that if all is well with us, why does he need to continue to purchase the magazines? What’s the point with them? I wonder if he thinks of these women while making love to me? Maybe I’m just being silly?
I can’t ask him because he would never answer my questions. I need some answers fast! Please?
Why do men purchase porn magazines?
Ok, any guy who buys porn magazines has serious ”issues” that he needs to work out. It’s not rational for a man to spend money on these kinds of magazines. Some would say it’s also degrading, not to the women in the magazines, but to the men that need to buy them. Subjecting yourself to “looks” of condemnation and disgust from sales clerks and other customers because of self-gratification purposes is hardly what a well-adjusted male would want to do.
No man should need to degrade himself in this way, especially as there is help to be had! The solution is broadband Internet connections, and skip roping and cheerleading competitions on cable sports channels!
You have a few other questions there so I’ll answer them in point form:
Q: Why does he need to continue to purchase the magazines?
A: Perhaps he doesn’t have a good Internet connection and satellite or cable TV?
Q: What’s the point with them?
A: They are for self-gratification purposes, or he is studying the female form for art purposes… Does he paint?
Q: I wonder if he thinks of these women while making love to me?
A: It’s possible if he has a really vivid imagination, and a good memory…
Q: Maybe I’m just being silly?
A: Yes, of course… Only worry if he buys magazine featuring horrific acts that you would never consider. You know, imagery featuring: goats, corpses, strangulation, vomit, squirrels, grandmothers, ice picks, King Kong, toenail clippings, Donald Trump’s hair, electrical egg beaters, raw salmon filets, aboriginal cave paintings etc.
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