Have I really met the perfect man to love on a computer?
I met a man in a computer chat room in January of 2008. We met in person a month later, and I moved in with him in March. My question is this: Can this be real? Have I really met the perfect man to love on a computer?
Well, technically you didn’t meet him on (or in) your AOL computer… It was simply a tool for you to get in contact with men, just as telephones and cheap red wine were used pre-computer age.
It’s possibple that it’s “real” as few psychotic or stoned women take the time to formulate well thought out questions to online advice columns…
Less than a year in a relationship is a very short time to discover all your boyfriend’s faults (yes, all men have them…) and for you to determine if he can be retrained. But instead of wondering if it’s “real” or pondering what “perfect” means — why not simply enjoy the ride and see where it takes you?
As a side note… If he’s the perfect man:
- Don’t nag him about insignifcant shit, or at all…
- Buy towels, bed linens and fake plants on your own. There’s no need to involve him…
- Untimely and frequent headaches will eventually make him an ex-perfect man…
- Pick up after him if you want your house cleaner…
- If he’s napping: he’s simply napping, and not being lazy…
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