Can I keep loving my boyfriend and ex-boyfriend at the same time?
I have a problem… I am in love with 2 people. One is my ex-boyfriend and the other is my current boyfriend. Both are really sweet and want to take care of me. I have loved my ex-boyfriend for over 2 years and I have loved my current boyfriend for a year and a half.
What do I do? Can I keep loving my boyfriend and ex-boyfriend at the same time?
They both want to “take care of you?” What are you — a puppy? Little old grandma needs help with diaper changes?
Unless the law allows for (female) polygamy in your neck of the woods, why not start sorting out what you want in life? If you are serious about one of your two boyfriends — only one of them should be standing in the end. Why don’t you decide what you want before someone else make the choice for you.
Sometimes when you rub two perfectly good sticks together for a long period of time, you will make a fire that will char both of them, and you end up with nothing.
Marrying two guys is not a realistic option — it will drive you mad! Have you seen the divorce rates lately? Heck, it’s nuts! And that’s involving only two people! Before you get excited about the prospect of marrying two guys, consider these drawbacks:
Work – Twice the amount of beer bottles, socks, and old stained t-shirts for you to clean up and wash…
Money — Two sets each of: power tools, playboy subscriptions, Laz-E-boy recliners, TV remote controls, BBQs, cigar smoking poker nights, ex-girlfriends and mistresses, cars, and the list just goes on…
Anguish — Two extremely agitated men in the house a couple of days per month…
Time — Twice the amount of “we need to talk” sessions…
Pills — Twice the amount of untimely “headaches”…
Irritants — Twice the amount of nagging, pleading, and crying to get something done around the house…
Chemicals — Twice the amount of Lysol in the bathroom, bedroom and den…
Nitrates — Twice the amount of beef jerky, salami and salted hams for you to carry home from the grocery store…
Family — Two sets of mother in laws for your to suck up to…
Hard labour — Twice the amount of old gym bags for you to sterilize or bury in the backyard…
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