Why doesn’t he call me?
I have known this guy for over 7 years and we just started dating. He lives on the West Coast and I’m in the Midwest.
The past few months he’s been busy working out of the country and we have been communicating less and less because of this. I hear from him every 2 or 3 weeks, and he says that he does miss me.
Am I a fool?
Why doesn’t he call me?
I don’t think you are fool… A bit pathetic perhaps, but not a fool…
Yes, getting a phone call every other week or so, is kind of weak in my most humble opinion. I would question his commitment to you if he can afford more frequent phone calls than that.
What kind of circumstances is he in? Does he have a phone readily available? If “yes” — then worry!
It’s not fair having you sitting around the phone like some kind of lovesick puppy… Ask him what the deal is! Guys are not all that great with “fluffy” questions… Ask him straight out if his boning or thinking about boning some other woman, and if that’s the reason why he’s not calling. Why don’t you call him?
Then again, if he’s “working” in war on the other side of the world… Perhaps he doesn’t have access to a phone all the time… And that woud also make you an incredibly dumb tart.
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