Am I nuts for not feeling loved anymore?
I know my husbands loves me but it really hurts when he jokes about other women with his buddies in front of me…
We never spend any time together anymore. He goes is to work in the morning, and when he gets home, he walk straight in to the garage to play with his car.
Am I nuts for not feeling loved anymore?
Guys joke about all kinds of things, perhaps not always when there’s a lady present, but they do. If you know that he loves you as you say, well then those jokes about other women shouldn’t really be a problem then? In many other cultures men penis-wrestle — in the West they talk nasty… It accomplishes the same thing: it’s just male bonding!
The issue here is more likely that you feel neglected, and you getting upset about jokes, is merely a symptom of that.
Why don’t you dress yourself up as a Ford Pinto and back your arse in to that garage of his? It should get his attention…
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