Are his erection problems a sign that he doesn’t find me attractive sexually?
I have been dating a man for 8 months and we have haven’t had sex yet. The thing is that he has problems getting or holding an erection… but that is not what is bothering me.
About 10 years ago, he dated men, until about 5 years ago when he started dating women but has not had physical relations with them. Am I just wasting my time or should I be more patient? I really love him and we talk about our future, but I want to know that I am in it for the right reasons.
Are his erection problems a sign that he doesn’t find me attractive sexually?
There can all kinds of reasons for male “equipment” malfunctions… Erection problems… What is he telling you? There is professional help available, both psychological and medical if he’s willing to explore those options.
If he only has had “issues” when being with women — well, then you both have important things to talk about… Is it possible that he doesn’t like the taste of pears because he has always been (and still is) interested in bananas? I’m sure that’s very possible… In any case, it’s not easy to forcefully try and fit a circle in to a square hole…
Perhaps he has always had problems with his “equipment”?
We are talking about basic primal needs and instincts here, and they are not easy to subdue, or ignore. Sooner or later, something will give… To make sure you don’t get completely pummeled when you have much more than 8 months invested in this: sort this thing out now!
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