Should I come clean and tell my wife about my Kate Hudson infatuation?
My infatuation with actress Kate Hudson has become a problem. She has taken over my life. While my wife knows I’m a fan she has no idea of how completely Kate Hudson controls my mind. Kate occupies every waking moment and fills my dreams with erotic thoughts. I am her slave. A small part of me realizes that somehow I have to regain control of my thoughts. I must stop Kate Hudson.
I feel that maybe my wife could help me break free but I’m worried she’ll reject me if I admit my infatuation. I’m sure if my wife knew what Kate Hudson has done to me she’d be very hurt. I still love my wife and don’t want to hurt her.
Should I come clean and tell my wife about my Kate Hudson infatuation?
I find your queries especially interesting as I could have written them myself! I can see where you are coming from as I have the same thoughts and feelings about actress Nicole Kidman and that goofy looking hobbit from The Lord of the Rings movie trilogy. To be honest with you, I don’t think it’s a problem… I would call it a “hobby” but on very many levels (some of the thoughts being in extremely deep and dark places…) But still in a healthy and sane kind of way!
When reading you letter, I sense “guilt” and I truly don’t understand why you have to feel that way. If you had been describing “art”, “butt shaving” or “juggling”, instead of “Kate Hudson”, no one would even react to your comments. In fact, had it been about anything else but a gorgeous woman, people would only think that you are very passionate about your chosen hobby.
I don’t understand why married men these days are so obsessed about “honesty” and “coming clean” about everything. I don’t get it… Your wife doesn’t have to know about everything that goes on in your mind at every minute of the day… She really doesn’t… Try it!
My advice to you is to enjoy your mind’s creative ideas, and Kate Hudson. Also, stay away from eBay! There are a many women named Kate Hudson out there… and accidentally buying something extremely personal of Kate Hudson “the retired music teacher” could be quite traumatizing.
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