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The first real boyfriend I ever had moved with his dad to another state a couple of years ago (his dad was in the navy). Well, they are back now and I feel like I could get really in to this guy again — he’s a hunk!

I have tried talking to him, but he doesn’t seem interested at all. I have gained quite a bit of weight (around 70 lbs.) and I’m wondering if that has anything to do with it?

Wouldn’t it help that my breasts are also bigger?

Well, your breasts might matter if you have also gained 4 feet in height, with those 70 pounds… I don’t know… there could be any number of reasons why he isn’t interested:

1. He hasn’t unpacked his bags yet.
2. He doesn’t want a girlfriend, or he already has one.
3. He likes his meat lean.

Instead of worrying about if your weight has anything to do with it; why not just live a life? Have fun. See what happens. As fantastic as this may sound: all guys don’t want their girlfriends to be a bag of bones.

Broaden your horizons a little bit, and look somewhere altogether different in order to meet someone that’s right for you. If you keep opening the same box, you well keep finding the same thing. This shouldn’t really come as a surprise to you?

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- Dog

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