Do you think it’s ok to encourage her to try a lesbian relationship?
My girlfriend I and I have been together for almost 4 years, and I would say that our relationship has been great in every way. However, recently she has started talking about being curious in a same-sex relationship.
First I was a bit shocked imagining her being a lesbian or bi-sexual, but after the initial shock, I have been nothing but encouraging. I like her very much and I believe I should encourage her to try something new, even though my parents and friends think I’m nuts.
Do you think it’s ok to encourage her to try a lesbian relationship?
You know those late night cable shows you watch when your girlfriend isn’t around? You know the ones that involve women getting it on while the boyfriends are drinking beer and cheering them on? Well, real-life is not like that…
What you are doing is encouraging a soon to be lesbian ex-girlfriend to dump your sorry ass. It’s very noble of you to help her find her true self, but don’t kid yourself: if she goes down that slippery slope… you will not be part of it.
As a side note: it’s very likely that you wouldn’t be in this situation right now, had you left her feeling like a clubbed seal pup every time you hit the sack.
You also wrote that you “like her very much…” What’s that? Perhaps she is simply looking for someone that will look at her as being more than “likeable”?
Face the facts: you are done — out — kaput…
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