Why am I attracted to other women when I have my wife-to-be?
I got engaged a couple of months go (and we are planning to get married next spring) to a smart, beautiful and sexy woman. She’s a knockout… but I find myself drawn to other women more than ever, and the women seem more attracted to me lately also.
This is really confusing, and I have started wondering if I have jumped in on a promise I can’t follow up on.
Why am I attracted to other women when I have my wife-to-be?
To answer your last question: because you have two testicles and a penis. Simple.
However, the fact that you have two testicles and a penis doesn’t mean that you should try to bury them in every woman that comes your way. Normally the woman you are in a relationships with has exclusivity to your appendages. That’s sort of “point 1″ when it comes to defining a monogamous relationship.
Marriage and a relationship in genereal is a personal choice: you prefer regular sex over the irregular sex of singles. Simply make the choice.
What you are seeing is called “the ring effect”… You are freaking out a little bit about marriage and thus you are paying more attention than before to subtle advances. However, do note that some (all) of these women might believe that you could be a “little something” as you have that ring on your finger… However, their first curious advances (or probes) will tell them that you are still pathetic, unreliable and half-a-man.
A vast majority of those curious advances by women would never lead to anything anyway… Sorry. They are merely checking you out, or checking if they still got it. It’s a game… As with a pinata or a penis — taking one whack at one rarely results in any kind of rewards.
How about getting over yourself?
- Dog
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