How can I let him understand that I expect more of a commitment from him?
I have been having an affair with a married man for a year or so. Since the beginning he has promised me that he would leave his wife and kids, but he hasn’t done it yet. A couple of weeks ago he even took them all to Disney World. That doesn’t sound to me like a man leaving his family?
He rarely stays the night any more and goes home to his wife or buddies after seeing me. We used to see each other almost every day, but now it’s a couple of times per week at most. A few times it’s even been over a week, and when he was on vacation — three whole weeks!
How can I let him understand that I expect more of a commitment from him?
There’s nothing you can say to change anything… The fact that he doesn’t wish to have sex with you that often, simply means that he’s bored with you. Perhaps he even has a second tart lined up on the side?
Why would you even have expectations on a man that is cheating on his wife, and possibly a second woman (much hotter than you)? Resign to the fact that you are all but a spare hole for him to fill whenever he finds the time, or when the mood strikes.
Continue living the life of an unpaid whore — or move one! Simple.
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- Dog