Can you have a lesbian girlfriend who is just a friend?
I’m 17 and my boyfriend just broke up with me. One of my best friend’s who was over to comfort and support me, revealed that she was gay and in love with me! I got really angry and disgusted and chased her out of the house.
I feel really bad now as she is a nice person and she was crying something awful. At school she looks really miserable and we don’t talk. Most of our friends don’t talk to her either as I told a few of my friends what she said. I guess everyone knows that she’s gay now?
I still feel disgusted about her gay lifestyle but I also feel bad because she’s so sad.
Can you have a lesbian girlfriend who is just a friend?
You really are a fucking moron and a disgusting stain on the human race if you don’t fix this! If you don’t make things right, you will always go through life as scum and someone that can’t be trusted as a friend.
I give you one thing: the timing of your gay friend’s revelation was probably not the best (especially when expressed to a flaky, immature and overly emotional person like yourself). However, not being a dimwit and immature 17-year-old like yourself, I realize that she was merely caught up in the moment and lost herself in her emotions.
You will have a really rough and boring life if you can’t forgive a person for something as non-threatening like that. She said, “I love you!”… So what advice do you expect to receive here? “Yes, she loving you is a horrible crime and she should be burned at the stakes?” No!
You seem to be a bit of a flake (you can fix it) — she still loves you…
You were dumped by a boyfriend even though you willingly spread your legs for him when asked — she still loves you…
There are much worse things in life than someone loving you… Granted, it doesn’t mean that you are obliged to engage in any sexual acts with her but it should all be taken as a compliment, no?
Your boyfriend simply used and dumped you… Your best (girl) friend loves you… Who’s the disgusting individual here? Really?
As for her “gay lifestyle”… She is 17 like yourself (I assume?) — neither of you have “lifestyles”! 17 is a storm of hormones and emotions… It’s confusing times! You should be hating your parents — not your friends!
Please do email me back with an update about your sad and pathetic actions (and hopefully good corrections).
- Dog
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