What’s going on with my boyfriend?
I have been in a nice relationship with this guy I work with. I admire his intelligence and the way he carries himself. Some people thinks he looks “goofy” but to me he’s perfect.
Here’s my problem: he hasn’t told anyone that we are “dating” or have a “romantic relationship”. He doesn’t even call me his “girlfriend” when we are together with friends. In private he hasn’t even said that he “loves me”.
I would think that I at least deserve a title as we have been dating and having sex for over two years now?
What’s going on with my boyfriend?
He doesn’t need to do anything — he’s getting all he wants from you with a minimal effort. Why in God’s name would he want to change anything?
You want a title? How about: “His cheap gullible hole on the side?”
He’s “goofy looking” and you seem to be “goofy in the head”… By all accounts you should be a match made in heaven!
If you want to see how worthwhile your relationship is too him — place some demands on him and keep your legs closed until he delivers… Chances are that you will be dumped faster than a leper with syphilis.
Sorry, “you have been had” — one more than one level.
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