How long does intercourse normally last?
How long does intercourse normally last? I have a new boyfriend since a couple of months (we are both 19) and we have had sex a few times, but he’s not good at it. In fact, he sucks at it! It takes him less than 5 minutes to have an orgasm. I’m never even close!
I’m not that experienced and have only been with one guy before. My previous boyfriend wasn’t that great either, but at least he made it interesting — around 10 minutes.
In movies they have sex all night. Is that just fiction? Sex lasting 5 - 10 minutes hardly seems right?
I’m getting kind of fed up with this sex thing!
Your little boyfriends need to learn to pace themselves… Also, you should never whip a 19-year-old guy in to a frenzy as he will go at it like a mindless puppy that has found his first pillow. Is it possible that you are whipping his arse like he was a racehorse?
You need to take charge as your boyfriend doesn’t seem to have a clue at what his doing (unless he’s in hurry when you get together, and he only has 5 minutes to spare?) If he can’t pace himself even after you show him how you want it: ask him to first toss the main stuff in the sink before he gets in to bed with you next time… He should last more than 5 minutes in the second round.
People having sex all night in movies is of course all fiction… Sooner or later a guy has to get out of bed for a leak, a piece of fried chicken and a cold beer.
If you absolutely need sex to last a very long time — find yourself a 70-year-old boyfriend, or at least someone more experienced in the art of whipping up frothy margaritas.
- Dog
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