Ask Dog

I am truly in love with my boyfriend, but I do not trust him. He has had many girlfriends before me and he is still friends with quite a few of them.

I often wonder if he is thinking of someone else when he is with me. I am not sure why, but I often get a sense that he is distant when we have sex, or just cuddle.

Is it possible that my boyfriend is in love with someone else?

Anything is possible… However, to make him forget about other women — screw his brains out! Nothing makes men forget about other women faster than when their brains are left on the pillow!

As for him thinking about other women during sex — it’s quite  common! Especially if you don’t look like Angelina Jolie or Charlize Theron, or if you can’t do the splits.

I don’t think you need to concern yourself about what he’s thinking… It will drive you nuts! If you absolutely have to worry about something — worry about things more tangible, like where his penis might be when you AREN’T around.

He being friendly with old girlfriends should be ok, as long as the friendliness doesn’t involve nakedness and the exchange of bodily fluids.

- Dog

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