How do I talk to my boyfriend about this porn on his computer?
I used my live-in boyfriend’s laptop and found disgusting porn on it. I mean it’s really disgusting… It’s videos and pictures of very old ladies (grandmas) and people with animals and things like that!
There was even this series of pictures of this redhead girl that looked just like me and she had a wine bottle in a place where things normally come out… (if you understand what I mean?)
I am completely and utterly shocked! He is a great guy who is amazing in bed. He works with kids (teaches high school English); he paints with watercolours and is a drummer in an Indie rock band, that’s actually going places!
What to I do? Do I admit to snooping around his computer and risk losing him? Maybe I should just have a talk to him about porn in general and see what he says?
I don’t want to lose him! I don’t! How do I talk to my boyfriend about this porn on his computer? Should I just try to forget it all?
Really? What did you expect? He’s a drummer in an Indie rock band that’s going places…
As he’s amazing in bed — he seems to have picked up a few things (from somewhere…)
What’s the problem here, really? The only problem seems to be that you feel horrible for snooping around in his private stuff. If he’s still that great guy who is amazing in bed — enjoy!
If you had any real objections to the abuse and exploitation of grandmothers and animals — you would have dumped his scary and freaky arse already. Seriously!
- Dog
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Well, maybe you should be like:
I saw some porn the other day, and it was accidentally, it was kinda’ on your computer. I just wanted to ask you why you had looked at that. A plain answer :-)
Hopefully it will work.