Do you think he could ever forgive my chat lies?
I have this guy that I chat with online. We have been messaging, chatting and emailing each other for 2 years and he really is an amazing person. Now he wants us to meet.
I should be very excited but I’m petrified, as I have lied about my age to him. I’m 7 years older than he is his and not 4 years younger…
The pictures I have sent him of myself were in reality, of a family friend. I know it was a stupid thing to do, but when we first started chatting I didn’t think it would ever evolve in to this amazing thing.
What am I supposed to do? I’m afraid I will lose him because of my stupid lies. I care for him a lot.
Do you think he could ever forgive my chat lies?
No, he will probably not be able to forgive you. You are pretty much a complete stranger to him… Everything you have, or think you have, built, are all lies. You lied about all these monumental things, so it’s not too far fetched to assume you have lied about other things also.
You have to tell him! Then pray that he can forgive you… It takes one heck of a person to forgive something like this though.
In general, please don’t call them “chat lies” — they are “horrible lies”…
- Dog
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