How do I cope with waiting until marriage for sex?
Hello. How do I cope with waiting until marriage for sex? I have received oral sex a few times, which only makes it harder for me.
It is impossible to find a woman who is willing to wait, until after marriage, before engaging in copulation. For me it is not about “morals”… I do not wish to lose my salvation through my Lord and saviour, Jesus Christ.
Although I repent for my past actions, if I were to engage in premarital sex, knowing I can repent, would that not make it “not repenting”? Being a follower of Christ is not a license to sin, just because I will be forgiven if I repent. I know he is helping me every step of the way, but sometimes I get saddened when I see a pretty girl, especially when the outfit she is wearing screams, “f**k me!” It is very frustrating!
Masturbation is also a sin, which makes it harder. I depend on the Lord; he has helped me through, but sometimes it gets me very worried. It is not even so much whether I can wait or not. It is knowing that there is not that much time left of life on this earth as we know it, and I don’t want to die a virgin if i can help it, although once I get to heaven, it will not matter.
Had I lived 100 years ago, it would definitely have been easier. Not being completely surrounded by evil forces would also help.
I know also that the end is near, which makes me worried because once judgement day comes, there is no turning back, and what has me more worried is that it will be happening VERY soon. I have thought about sinning to lose my virginity and then live a happy single life, but that would be sin as well.
Do you have any advice to give?
Yes, I do. Get laid! Pronto! Or make your own omelette, which ever is easier for you…
You are so backed up it’s affecting your brain functions. You will end up a giggling imbecile if you don’t get your rocks off soon!
Live a little!
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