Why is extramarital sex such a bad thing?
I’m a married woman, 26. I love my husband. We have a wonderful life together on every level. Great sex life, kids and his family is rich.
The thing is, I have always had the hots for my husband’s younger brother, and recently we had sex and I loved it! It was like a crazy wild fantasy coming true! I love my husband and our kids, and I do not intend to leave him. At the same time, would it be so horribly wrong to have sex with my brother-in-law occasionally?
It’s not a random guy so it doesn’t feel like cheating to me.
Why is extramarital sex such a bad thing?
It’s frowned upon because “marriage” by definition is a sensual and contractual relationship with one other person. You know… Wedding woes, rings, priests, and woks, and other crappy gifts from uncles and aunts you rarely see. You didn’t pay much attention on your wedding day, did you?
It’s cheating… No matter how you try to twist things around in your disillusioned mind — it’s cheating and lying, plain and simple. Not only do you risk pissing it all away with your husband, but you also risk wrecking things between two brothers.
You declaring not having any intent to leave your husband means nothing… If (when…) he finds out — your sorry arse will be out on the street (no matter if you want it or not). He’ll find out eventually… You see, brothers talk… Time… It’s all a matter of time…
My guess? Your husband will find out the day after you piss his brother off. “Coming clean” is better than being caught with your pants around your ankles. The back stabbing brother will step up to the plate when the time comes.
You are not overly bright, are you?
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