Why don’t I feel like having sex anymore?
I’m a very sexual person and I have been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years. I love him but lately I haven’t had any interest in having sex with him. Things feel different between us. I’m not sure why that is… It just does!
It’s been about two months since we last had sex, I think. Now my boyfriend has started to think there’s “something going on”. I have told him there is no one else, but he doubts me.
I know I love him but he doesn’t turn me on in the same way! Why don’t I feel like having sex anymore?
Have a bottle of wine and take one for the team, or you will soon have an ex-boyfriend. Once your boyfriend is no longer backed up and can think clearly — talk to him!
Your quotes:
“Things feel different between us.” — Different from what? You have been dating for two years, so its only natural that things “feel different” from when you first hit the sack…
“It’s been about two months since we last had sex” — Ask your boyfriend when it was, and I’m sure he can give you the exact date and time…
“Now my boyfriend has started to think there’s “something going on”" — Well, duh! Clearly, there’s something going on…
You need to talk and figure what’s going on, or you are screwed (pun intended).
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