Do you have any advice for our relationship?
I have been seeing my girlfriend for about a good month now, we met over the internet, and we both fell in love with each other instantaneously! The issue is that she is already married, but unhappily and she wants to leave him, and she lives on the other side of the country.
The problem is she is scared to because they have an 8-month infant, and she is also afraid of being “hurt” if she tells him that she wants a divorce. He is extremely controlling and tries to run every aspect of her life. She has been a victim of marital rape, which is illegal in her state.
I want very much to go and rescue her and get her out of that situation. The problem is neither of us are able to afford to relocate, I am always there for her and I need to know what sort of options we might have. I need to help her but I’m not exactly sure what I can do.
Do you have any advice for our relationship?
She is not your “girlfriend”… She is a “wife” to someone else. You two are only exchanging bodily fluids on occasion; you are infrequent “bed mates”. If you haven’t even met in person — you two are barely even “pen pals” (and she’s probably playing you).
If her husband is an abuser and a rapist — she should go to the police, and then as far away from him as possible.
I don’t think she’s the innocent victim of all the evil in the world… and this is not your situation to fix. She has to step up to the plate and deal with her own situation, which she has now made worse by meddling with you.
Again, if there is abuse and rape — go to the Police! Using it as an excuse to screw around is pathetic. The whole description of the situation sounds skewed and more like “half-a-story”.
Probably not what you hoped to hear but that’s my advice based on your limited information.
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