Why are threesomes so important to my boyfriend?
I had a threesome with my boyfriend and a girlfriend of mine, about 6 months ago. It sort of just happened, and I was drunk. I didn’t like it and I swore I would never do it again, as it just didn’t feel like a loving thing to do with an “exclusive” and ”loving” partner.
I felt horrible for the longest time, and the other girl and I hardly talk anymore. It feels awkward and embarrassing being in the same room as her!
Since then he has been pushing me to try it again, and to talk to one of my other girlfriends. I have said to him that I don’t want to do it again, but he keeps pushing and pushing the issue.
I’m starting to feel that he getting one of my other girlfriends in bed is more important than what my needs and wants are.
Why are threesomes so important to my boyfriend? I feel inadequate in the way he is pushing me, and I’m starting to doubt if he really cares for me at all. He’s not “all that” in his pants or bed either… I taught him what he knows!
What should I do?
How about if you ask for a foursome with two of his well-hung and better looking friends? That might shut him up…
He’s being selfish and is on a huge ego trip. If he doesn’t shut up about it even after you tell him how you feel — boot his arse out. Plain and simple! If he doesn’t care what you think and feel, what’s the point of your relationship?
You pimping out your girlfriends to satisfy his ego is not the way to relationship or marital bliss (or success…)
Everything is “easier” when you live life in singledom (or the life of a simpleton) or in a non-committed (open) relationship, because you have less to lose. Add a true partnership and real friends to the mix and things can quickly end up in the toilet.
Look up “friend” in the dictionary. Nowhere is threesomes, nakedness and sex mentioned. Sure, there are people out there who are perfectly giddy about pimping each other out, but if it’s not for you — it’s not for you!
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