Why am I obsessed with my boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend?
Why am I obsessed with my boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend? I was together with my boyfriend for 8 months, before I broke up with him. We were separated for about 3 months. During this time, he made friends with this girl (she already had a boyfriend). They cuddled and did mushy stuff. They wrote each other cute love emails and things of that nature.
We got back together again, but the other girls kept calling him all the time to do stuff and she still wrote him those e-mails. This made me feel very uncomfortable, so I broke up with him again! Now she’s calling even more than before!
After seeing my boyfriend, we decided to get back together again. He said he realized that the other girl was interfering too much in our relationship.
I still haven’t aired things out with this other girl. She is constantly on my mind, and just the thought of her makes me angry! She is in my head constantly (even in my dreams!)
She has hurt me so much and I want justice!
Why you are obsessed with this girl? Either you have a mental illness or you are extremely immature. I have no idea how old you are, but judging by your writing (before basic spelling and grammar corrections) you are seem to be about 12 or 13. Grow up!
Please break up with this guy for a third time! Third time lucky, eh? Give the guy a chance to find himself a girlfriend who isn’t neurotic and childish! You are too much work! You are not worth the effort!
Ok, so maybe he is a complete loser… but for the love of Jebus don’t project your anger at a female who is as confused as you are.
You don’t need a boyfriend — you need a brain, and a life.
Read some books and better yourself! You need it badly…
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