How am I supposed to have sex if I can’t open my legs enough?


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I’m 16 and still a virgin and I have a dumb question. Well, it feel dumb as I should now this, but I don’t know how it works.

Do your legs become wider apart after you lose your virginity? The more often you have sex, the easier it gets, right? I had my boyfriend fooling around on top of me and it hurt my groin and hips. How am I supposed to have sex if I can’t open my legs enough?

Yes, the more sex you have, the more bowlegged and nimble you get. Have you seen Pamela Anderson? She can walk across a wheelbarrow because she was married to Tommy Lee for three years.

Nooo… not really…

You don’t need to be a Pamela Anderson or an Olympic gymnast to have sex. It’s all about angles and positions… It’s human nature to avoid things that hurt. It’s also human nature to procreate — you’ll find a way, when you get to that point.

As for “that point”… I would suggest you wait a few years before having sex, at least until you figure out the basics of human physiology.

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