What can I do to prevent him from making a big mistake?
I had an affair with a man for two years ago. He left his wife (they are not legally divorced yet but they are working on it) and moved in with me about 8 months ago. He and his ex-wife have three children together, and they live just a few blocks away.
My problem is that he’s only allowed to visit the children when she’s present. I’m not allowed around, not even when they go to a public place, like the playground. I have no doubt she would take him back in an instant if given the chance…
I fear she’s getting too many “chances” to work and guilt him in to coming back to her, as I’m not there to remind him about us.
What can I do to prevent him from making a big mistake?
What mistake is that? The mistake of being more of a father for his kids or the husband he promised to be?
You happily helped wreck her home and family. Why would she give you any privileges or make you feel better? I’m confused…
The arrangement for the kids has nothing to do with you. You helped make it this way and now you have to live the consequences.
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