How do I make my boyfriend understand that anal sex is not for me?
My boyfriend says he needs to have anal sex with me but I don’t want to do it. I have told him repeatedly that it isn’t my thing but he keeps pushing me. He’s not saying it outright, but I think he’s insinuating that he’ll leave me if I don’t give in.
It’s getting to the point now where I’m seriously considering ending it with him. He doesn’t know this, but I have tried it more than once and it does nothing for me, on the contrary, it’s a complete turn-off. He’s being quite immature.
I don’t know where this anal sex obsession came from? He doesn’t shut up about it! I thought we were doing great for over a year and suddenly out of the blue, he’s threatening me! What’s going on here?
How do I make my boyfriend understand that anal sex is not for me?
He’s threatening you? Well… That’s not very nice, is it? Threats do not happen in any sane, working and mutually inclusive relationship. How about if you buy a foot-long strap-on and ask him to get down on all fours, to first fulfill one of your great “fantasies”? That might be a reality check for him?
Seriously though… He needs to get over himself, or show him the door. Tell him that his penis is quite adequate and does the trick for you in games you both enjoy playing. If anal sex is something he “needs” and you don’t have it to “give” — he’s shit out off luck, eh?
If he doesn’t care what you think and fell… Well, then he simply doesn’t care… Why would you keep him around?
- Dog
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