How do I know if I’m a lesbian?


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I just turned 18. I have had one boyfriend for 3 years (we broke up a month ago). The strange thing is that I didn’t really care when he broke up with me.

Ever since I was little, I have had crushes on boys. It has always been that way… Well, about three months ago, I watched a lesbian porn movie with my boyfriend. Since then, I have not been able to get it out of my head. Just thinking about lesbian porn turns me on!

Is it possible that I have been a lesbian all along? How do I know if I’m a lesbian?

The strange thing is that I don’t feel particularly attracted to any woman I have met in real life. However, the movies drive me crazy… What is going on?

Getting off to some cheap lesbian porn movies, does not make you gay. It just means that you are getting off to some cheap lesbian porn movies…

It would be quite difficult for you to be gay if you are not attracted to the same sex in real life… Ok, so these movies are new and exciting, and perhaps a bit confusing to you… You get off — nobody is getting hurt, so why do you need to obsess about it? You’ll get bored with it eventually.

As to your question: “How do I know if I’m a lesbian?”… You would know! It would start with you being attracted to the same sex.

- Dog

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